Popular Post LordAnubis Posted October 4, 2020 Popular Post Posted October 4, 2020 So last night I got a call from my brother to say that my dad had collapsed and the paramedics were there trying to resuscitate him. Unfortunately he has passed into the hands of Allah now. My family and I are as best as we can be. I’m extremely grateful for the support of the FoH community. Can only be described as true brothers. It’s been a long time between smokes for me and I was waiting for another month before I lit one up but I feel now is the time. I’m smoking a Maduro number 2. This cigar is the essence of my dad. Sharp, short, fat, and dark ? My childhood memories always flash to what we had. I grew up in various small mining towns in Australia in the late 80s and early 90s. You can imagine how alien we were, my mum wearing hijab, in a small town in the middle of Australia. We had a fantastic childhood and still at heart I’m a country boy. My parents came with nothing, and with everything they made they saved up to sponsor my dads brothers and his mum, to come to Australia aswell. My dad never left my brother and I wanting. Looking back I now know how menial out demands were when we were kids. But my dad gave us everything he could. The cigar starts with a bit of tobacco and dark roasted coffee. No sweetness so far. A few years ago I smoked through a box of Secretos and I found I liked them a fair bit, different brand and corona ofcourse but this doesn’t bring back memories of that. I recall having one Partagas Maduro 1 a few years ago but have no memories of the tasting notes. My dad went through a tough time with a business to put food on our table. Eventually giving it up and going back into the mining world. He had a triple heart bypass about 10 years ago. I remember the feeling when we were in the hospital waiting during his operation. Operations are pretty much a process these days so we knew he was in experienced hands. He got through that and lived to see two grandkids and both his children (me and my brother) marry. Half way through the cigar somehow has become lighter and creamy. Almost like an ice coffee type dilute milky coffee. This probably isn’t the best cigar for my first cigar after about 8 months, but the slowing down of my life, the introspection is helping me out, as always the cigar is merely the vessel. I got this cigar in a sampler of the three Maduros and it’s coming along nicely I think. In the last few years we finally convinced my dad to retire. He had been retired for about 7 years. I called him the family Uber because his life was now doing school runs for the grandkids and taking my mum everywhere. He was living his life, he and my mum travelling when they wanted. I unfortunately have not spent much time at home due working overseas for a bit and then moving to Melbourne in the last few years. I’ll never get those years back but I always cherished the calls and the time we had together when I was home. He lived his last day doing gardening as he liked, had family and friends over earlier in the day and he just collapsed while walking to his room. It was pretty instant and I thank Allah he lived a happy life and did not suffer the slightest in his journey to the next life. Cigar went out at the last 30cm. Taking it too slow. Relight and it kicks back into form. Doesn’t progress much flavour wise. I’d like to see some sweetness in it but maybe with some age that will come through. My father is survived by his mother, wife of 40 years, two children, two grandchildren and 4 siblings. May he Rest In Peace and be afforded mercy and forgiveness. I’ll see you on the other side dad. What a year 2020 has been! Lockdown, run over by car, Aunty passing, grandma having a tough time and now my dad passing. All we can do is cherish the time we have with our family and friends. Love from me and my family to all of you. 17 11
Ken Gargett Posted October 4, 2020 Posted October 4, 2020 mus, so sorry to hear this. i know what a tough time this is, and will be, for you. hang in. it does get better. 1
Habana Mike Posted October 4, 2020 Posted October 4, 2020 Our condolences to you Mus. I know it is a difficult time. At least you are reflecting on all the positives. Hang in there. 1
SmokyFontaine Posted October 4, 2020 Posted October 4, 2020 From Him we belong, and to Him we return. Thinking about you and the family. ❤️ 1
JohnS Posted October 4, 2020 Posted October 4, 2020 Sorry to hear this Mus. Try to reflect on those cherished times in the last few years (such as when your Dad saw you marry) and put aside any regrets. My Dad worked on American Ocean Cruising Liners in the 60s prior to coming to Australia in 1970 (with very little) and he never had the opportunity to go back onto a boat until my wife and I took him and my mum on a Luxury Cruising holiday around the Pacific in December 2019. Then two months later Covid-19 hit the Cruising industry. My Dad is 77...no regrets, just gratefulness! 1
Islandboy Posted October 4, 2020 Posted October 4, 2020 So sorry to hear of your family’s loss. Those are some beautiful words you put together....the most meaningful cigar review I’ve ever read. Thanks for sharing. 1
havanaclub Posted October 4, 2020 Posted October 4, 2020 Sir, my sincere condolences to you and your family. May you find peace. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk 1
El Presidente Posted October 4, 2020 Posted October 4, 2020 Condolences mate. Your dad would be very proud of you 1
Paul3 Posted October 4, 2020 Posted October 4, 2020 Mus, so very sorry to hear of your loss. Sheri and I are saying a prayer, wishing the best for you and your family. 1
Perla Posted October 4, 2020 Posted October 4, 2020 Our deepest condolences to you, your family and friends. It‘s hard to loose a parent and will take time to heal. Your cherished memories will help you. Big hug 1
madandana Posted October 4, 2020 Posted October 4, 2020 Sorry to hear Mus. Keep focusing on the good times. 1
Fuzz Posted October 4, 2020 Posted October 4, 2020 My deepest condolences to you and your family. Hope you get back home soon to be with the rest of your family. 1
anacostiakat Posted October 4, 2020 Posted October 4, 2020 Sad news. My deepest condolences to you and your family. 1
Cigarsmoker81 Posted October 4, 2020 Posted October 4, 2020 I’m sorry to hear that, my deepest condolences to you and your family My dad passed away 3 years ago and I know how difficult it must be, stay strong 1
alloy Posted October 4, 2020 Posted October 4, 2020 I am also sorry to hear that. My deepest condolences and prayers to you and your family. He was a great Father and family man to my ears. 1
Puros Y Vino Posted October 4, 2020 Posted October 4, 2020 My condolences Mus. It's hard to lost a parent. The loss creates a void inside. Keep remembering him and that void won't seem as bad. BTW, that review was a great tribute to your father and what you're going through. 1
Squarehead Posted October 4, 2020 Posted October 4, 2020 My deepest condolence to you and your family 1
joeypots Posted October 4, 2020 Posted October 4, 2020 Rough news. it's never easy to lose a parent. Condolences. 1
99call Posted October 4, 2020 Posted October 4, 2020 Thats terrible news, deepest condolences. It sounds as if he led a very colourful life, and has left a great legacy in you and your family. 1
Drguano Posted October 4, 2020 Posted October 4, 2020 I am sorry to hear of your loss. May his memory be a blessing. 1
CampDelta369 Posted October 4, 2020 Posted October 4, 2020 A great post and tribute to your father. God Bless him and your family. 1
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