Popular Post madandana Posted March 31, 2018 Popular Post Share Posted March 31, 2018 I wasn't going to post this because I didn't want to bring down the mood of the watering hole but then realized this is where my friends hang out ,so I need to let them know. We got the call about a week ago and returned home from wintering in Texas. It's small cell lung cancer that has moved into her liver and there's nothing they can do. We spent the last week by her bedside wishing she could stay but hoping she would leave soon and be out of pain. You hear about people going through this but don't know the hell of it until you are a part of it. Mom was a treat. Fun loving and never missed a happy hour. She loved the smell of my cigars and would often take a puff. Most of all she loved her family and her face lit up every time she saw us. This beautiful lady will be missed by many. 8 17 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
oliverdst Posted March 31, 2018 Share Posted March 31, 2018 She is not with you anymore, brother, but she will be forever alive in your heart. Good people are always remembered by those who met them. I am sure it's the case of your mother. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tigger Posted March 31, 2018 Share Posted March 31, 2018 So sorry to read this. We lost my mom 2 1/2 years ago in similar, but more extended circumstances. When her time came, it was a very sad blessing. I can tell you that the hole you're feeling in your life will shrink, though I don't know if it ever completely goes away. Hang in there... 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JohnS Posted March 31, 2018 Share Posted March 31, 2018 I'm really sorry for the passing of your mother, Mike! 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
anacostiakat Posted March 31, 2018 Share Posted March 31, 2018 So sorry to hear of you and your family's loss. RIP. God Bless. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PrairieSmoke Posted March 31, 2018 Share Posted March 31, 2018 So sorry for your loss! Praying peace for your family. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fuzz Posted March 31, 2018 Share Posted March 31, 2018 So sorry to hear about your loss, Mike. Condolences to you and your family. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
El Hoze Posted March 31, 2018 Share Posted March 31, 2018 Very sorry to hear of your loss. Lost my Mom to lung cancer almost exactly 10 years ago. Another one who never missed a happy hour! Wishing your family and your Mom peace during such a difficult time. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mgcrunch Posted March 31, 2018 Share Posted March 31, 2018 Condolences for your loss brother. Wish you and your family peace during this time. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
helix Posted March 31, 2018 Share Posted March 31, 2018 Sorry for your loss . 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TBird55 Posted March 31, 2018 Share Posted March 31, 2018 Sorry for your loss, peace. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fitzy Posted March 31, 2018 Share Posted March 31, 2018 Very sorry for your loss. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nino Posted March 31, 2018 Share Posted March 31, 2018 My heartfelt condolences. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ethernut Posted March 31, 2018 Share Posted March 31, 2018 So sorry Mike. Thank you for sharing. Your Mom was a beautiful Lady. Not sure if it applies but this poem came to mind as I read your post. I share it in hopes there is something within that brings comfort. Gone from my sight - Henry Van Dyke I am standing upon the seashore. A ship, at my side, spreads her white sails to the moving breeze and starts for the blue ocean. She is an object of beauty and strength. I stand and watch her until, at length, she hangs like a speck of white cloud just where the sea and sky come to mingle with each other. Then, someone at my side says, "There, she is gone." Gone where? Gone from my sight. That is all. She is just as large in mast, hull and spar as she was when she left my side. And, she is just as able to bear her load of living freight to her destined port. Her diminished size is in me -- not in her. And, just at the moment when someone says, "There, she is gone," there are other eyes watching her coming, and other voices ready to take up the glad shout, "Here she comes!" And that is dying... 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DnQuijote Posted March 31, 2018 Share Posted March 31, 2018 sorry to hear.Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LLC Posted March 31, 2018 Share Posted March 31, 2018 Sorry to read of your mom’s passing. Condolences to you and your family. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
topdiesel Posted March 31, 2018 Share Posted March 31, 2018 My condolences, she now lives through you and the others she touched. Thank you for sharing. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Colt45 Posted March 31, 2018 Share Posted March 31, 2018 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
anjimj Posted March 31, 2018 Share Posted March 31, 2018 Sorry for your loss. May your mother rest in peace! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bugman78629 Posted March 31, 2018 Share Posted March 31, 2018 Prayers be with you, sorry for your loss, Hermano..... 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Islandboy Posted March 31, 2018 Share Posted March 31, 2018 So sorry to hear of your loss, my friend. I’ll be raising a glass in honor of your mom tonight. With Aloha, Brad 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cigcars Posted March 31, 2018 Share Posted March 31, 2018 * Lost our Mom to small cell lung cancer too in April 2001. And another dear family friend to the Big C, and its unfortunate and uncomfortable after effects. As much as we miss them, Madandana, like you said - you don't want them hanging around suffering and in the greatest discomfort. I was outside the hospice room when the nurse(s) had to come out and tell me Mom had passed. I felt a combination of relief (that she wasn't having to go through that discomfort anymore) and disbelief...I just couldn't believe she was gone. But to not get off into that too far - let me just say that we are with you in heart, that we are your family, and thank you for including us in your very personal aspects of life and grief, then acceptance, and in allowing us all to hold your hand as we go through what life (and its end), and its continuing process has for us. May God Hold and Bless you and yours 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
luv2fly Posted March 31, 2018 Share Posted March 31, 2018 So very sorry for your loss Mike. Prayers for you and your family. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cfc1016 Posted March 31, 2018 Share Posted March 31, 2018 Sorry to hear it, man. I just said goodbye to my grandpa. I feel your pain. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Habana Mike Posted March 31, 2018 Share Posted March 31, 2018 Sincerest condolences and sympathy for you and your family. She must have been a great person they way she raised you! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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