sageman Posted May 21, 2022 Share Posted May 21, 2022 Heading to a local B&M anniversary party. Going alone. Setup is an outdoors gathering, food, they’ll have a roller. What are tips on making my way into a crowd of unfamiliar faces? What to bring, typical etiquette etc. Thanks! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post PigFish Posted May 21, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted May 21, 2022 Things to bring: BMW (non-M versions will need to be parked out back) Rolex Wad of cash- to buy the latest fat cigar with the most bands 64+1 Jet, smart lighter with unrefined fuel refining capability, BMI index reading, with testosterone dosing recommendations. a feigned ignorance and distain for Cuban cigars Smart phone to check your sports bets and to alleviate boredom. No, I am not jaded! I just go there to buy Dupont lighter fuel... 🤪 -The Pig Oh... by the way Mr. Sageman, welcome to the forum! Don't mind me, I am the forum curmudgeon. 5 1 18 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SCgarman Posted May 21, 2022 Share Posted May 21, 2022 2 hours ago, sageman said: Heading to a local B&M anniversary party. Going alone. Setup is an outdoors gathering, food, they’ll have a roller. What are tips on making my way into a crowd of unfamiliar faces? What to bring, typical etiquette etc. Thanks! A smile and be sociable. Always good ettiquette to purchase a cigar or two from the roller. Nothing more, just roll with it and have fun! 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Ford2112 Posted May 21, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted May 21, 2022 Wear an Iron Maiden shirt 11 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BoliDan Posted May 21, 2022 Share Posted May 21, 2022 49 minutes ago, PigFish said: Things to bring: BMW (non-M versions will need to be parked out back) Rolex Wad of cash- to buy the latest fat cigar with the most bands 64+1 Jet, smart lighter with unrefined fuel refining capability, BMI index reading, with testosterone dosing recommendations. a feigned ignorance and distain for Cuban cigars Smart phone to check your sports bets and to alleviate boredom. No, I am not jaded! I just go there to buy Dupont lighter fuel... 🤪 -The Pig Oh... by the way Mr. Sageman, welcome to the forum! Don't mind me, I am the forum curmudgeon. Seriously though, The guys there will be more curmudgeon than Ray if you show your preference for CCs and not sucking down a Nicaraguan stuffed full of ligero to the point you will not be able to taste another cigar until tomorrow. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post jakebarnes Posted May 21, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted May 21, 2022 I feel like the main rule is : don't be a dick. That usually goes a long way. In this context, I'd reckon that means the following: - patronize the B&M by getting a few cigars or accessories. - don't put on airs of what is and isn't "the best" and be responsive to those you chat with rather than a know it all that wants to be heard more than anything. - If someone acts like a know it all, agree to disagree and move on--drawn out arguments over nothing are best done on the internet. I've found the cigar community has a lot of interesting, fun and generous people if you're open to it and look in the right spots. Most importantly: have fun! 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BrightonCorgi Posted May 21, 2022 Share Posted May 21, 2022 Drive there in a Rolls or Lagonda. Bring a Jerombom of Champagne, already chilled. In seriousness, I like to bring doubles of cigars in case you want to hand one out. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jakebarnes Posted May 21, 2022 Share Posted May 21, 2022 41 minutes ago, BrightonCorgi said: Drive there in a Rolls or Lagonda. Bring a Jerombom of Champagne, already chilled. In seriousness, I like to bring doubles of cigars in case you want to hand one out. This also. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
garbandz Posted May 21, 2022 Share Posted May 21, 2022 don't hand out any cigars in a shop selling cigars. owners don't like that. stay on the prowl and meet as many folks as you can, don't sit beside the local asshole. people will think you know him. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Orion21isback Posted May 21, 2022 Share Posted May 21, 2022 It’s easy. Smile, smoke a few cigars, buy some from the B&M, have a few drinks and have a good time! Whenever I visit my local place to hang out I always bring my own Cubans, however my first stop is their humidor to pick out a few NCs I enjoy out of respect. Then I sit down, order a drink and smoke my Cubans. I don’t announce I’m smoking anything in particular. If someone asks I’ll tell them and it generally starts a great conversation. Hooenthat helps! P.S. @PigFish 😂😂😂 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post sageman Posted May 21, 2022 Author Popular Post Share Posted May 21, 2022 Thanks all for the tips! Brought a bottle, that was well received! Bought the event mix pack of uncut graycliffs for probably 50% more than I’d pay elsewhere, but got a free fresh hand rolled by the guy they brought in. That was a bummer but the owner brought out a Havana Club rum which I hadn’t tried. Met a couple guys who are apart or a group who take turns hosting/cooking for cigar based get togethers so I’m getting a call to join! Thanks again! 13 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SCgarman Posted May 21, 2022 Share Posted May 21, 2022 5 hours ago, Ford2112 said: Wear an Iron Maiden shirt And crank up the album Killers! 😇 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
inter4alia Posted May 22, 2022 Share Posted May 22, 2022 @sageman looks like a great event. Thanks for sharing the experience! 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Frinkiac7 Posted May 22, 2022 Share Posted May 22, 2022 If held on site at a B&M I think the biggest thing to do is patronize the store itself and buy a few sticks. 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sir Diggamus Posted May 22, 2022 Share Posted May 22, 2022 Sounds like you made out well! I moved to a new area last year and have gone stag to several events. I think the recommendations here are all good. I always buy cigars at the B&M hosting the event, and generally tend to ask others what they are smoking and why they like it. I have lived all over the US and cigar people tend to be friendly pretty much everywhere, some areas more than others, but that can vary shop to shop as well. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BrightonCorgi Posted May 22, 2022 Share Posted May 22, 2022 As for B&M hosting... I may have something, probably not cigars unless they have something I want. If you're not into their cigar selection; just give the owner a $20 for hosting the event. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sir Diggamus Posted May 22, 2022 Share Posted May 22, 2022 8 hours ago, BrightonCorgi said: As for B&M hosting... I may have something, probably not cigars unless they have something I want. If you're not into their cigar selection; just give the owner a $20 for hosting the event. That's one way to do it, I haven't thought of that. In most B&Ms I can usually find something I like, but as you point out sometimes there are times where the pickins are slim. At least in Michigan where I am now they have a carve out in the law for food so some of these lounges have a great menu, so even if I don't buy a cigar, I don't feel so guilty because I can grab a bite and a drink and still give some back to the B&M. I never thought about just flipping them a $20. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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