In the scenario here with your BiL, and his generosity to your family, of course! For me, almost any sort of reciprocation, acknowledging the gift, is measure enough.
But the one way street of “Hey Wheezy, you got any cigars?….Hey Wheezy, can you hook me up with a smoke?”….man, that shit gets old. And the blissful ignorance of a non-CC smoker, not understanding current prices/availability, they have no clue what they’re really asking is “Hey Wheezy, can I have a $50 cigar…one that took you a LOT of effort to buy?” Shuck that fit…
More context…just wrapped up our 3-day Member-Member golf tournament. Lots of friends who know I smoke, most of them “over served”, and in the past I’ve generally accommodated people.
@SigmundChurchill - you could probably accomplish the same thing giving @rcarlson a Sears catalog and some privacy…